After talking to a few people we know who have experienced infertility, we contacted a specialist and made an appointment. The office is nowhere near my house, but I have heard he is worth the drive so I go with it. Upon arriving, I discover that his entire office is covered in photographs of babies. Literally every surface is covered in photographs of smiling babies, crying babies, and notes from families thanking him for his help. Even as I sit in the waiting room, a woman comes in pushing a stroller and tells me that I am in great hands. She says he gave her this little miracle as she looks down at her beautiful sleeping baby. I immediately feel as though this is the place. This is the place where we will find a solution.

 

Finally I am sent back to the doctor’s office and he asks me a series of questions. As I sit there explaining what we have been through and all of my symptoms, he nods his head and takes notes. He tells me that there is in fact something wrong with me as what I am describing is not "normal". However, most doctors will just prescribe mediation because that is what the leading book on infertility tells them to do. He even shows me the book and the steps that it tells the doctor to follow. Step 1 is try for over a year then step 2 is to simply start medications. He says he wants to find the problem first then come up with a solution. Hallelujah! Someone who does not want to just fill me with drugs. I finally feel listened to and I am immediately at ease.

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